IN MEMORY OF OUR FRIEND, GEORGE HARTNER
George was a passionate surfer in all seasons and loved nothing more than spending time in the lineup with friends and strangers alike.
George never met someone he couldn’t find a way to connect to, and he counted among his friends rock stars and blue collar workers alike. His relationships were never about status, but human connection. There was no one that George had more time for than the underdog. From children experiencing a tough upbringing to those with special needs, George made sure that they felt seen and treasured.
George was such a valued member of our Surfers Healing family, and he was the brain behind our ‘One Perfect Summer’ CD to raise funds for the cause. He loved music, especially that of The Beatles and Bob Dylan. He started numerous bands and musical projects and produced several albums which were windows into a complex and loving soul. The ‘One Perfect Summer’ project will embody his passion for children, music, and surfing forever in his memory.
George faced a lifelong struggle with bipolar disorder, for which he sought treatment and would talk openly with anyone who he thought could benefit from hearing about someone else’s pain. In 2022, the depression worsened and began to resist forms of treatment that had previously helped. After several years of fighting to find relief from the pain, George made the decision to end his own life.
His family would like to express that while suicide is not something to be glorified, George’s decision to find release from his years of suffering is something that we understand and respect. In a kinder world, the resources available to George while he was in treatment would have struck a balance between finding holistic, spiritual answers to his pain along with traditional medication. Those who worked with George during his depression did amazing and compassionate work but were often up against a medical and insurance system that does not fully empathize or understand the pain that comes with mental illness.
The stigma surrounding mental illnesses often leaves patients feeling isolated and embarrassed about their condition. These struggles are as real and impactful as any illness of the body. This stigma does nothing to help those struggling from mental illness and often makes it harder to seek treatment and recover.
In lieu of flowers, the family is asking for donations be made in George’s memory to Surfers Healing. We’d like to thank the following families and individuals who donated in his honor:
Karen McGloin Knapp
Nancy Howeth Galasso
Lisa Farrell Molano
Sue Klemm
Jane Cockrell
Anne Berrien
Mary Ruth Marshall
Lisa Hall
Susan Donnelly
Fred Metzger
Joseph Farmer
Patricia Kennelly
Laura Spitalniak
Walter Aviles
Katie Smart
Kevin Parker
Todd Burnette
Jennifer Egeter
Lindsey King
Emma Brainerd
Margaret Carr
Bonita Matthews
Susan Pizzolato
Jan Schnitzlein
Andy Elias
Sara Burroughs
Rich Largman
Jo El Skipper
Jim & Sharyn Zembruski
Sandra Blackman
Pamela Harnett
Jean Sandlin
Garrett Shaver
Stephen Lane
Margaret Basten